What help me the most after 30 years? The four agreements (Book). What are these agreements? Four AGREEMENTS 1. Be impeccable with your words: Speak with integrity, avoid gossip, and use your words to spread truth and love. Avoid to spry bad words. it will be against you! Avoid black-magic never say bad word to someone, because it will become your diseases. try to say good word during of communication. 2. Don't take anything personally: Recognize that others' actions and words reflect their own reality, not necessarily the truth about you. what is black-magic when someone say some bad word about you and you know it's not you. then do not take it personally. black magic= bad word like "your lazy person" white magic= " you look amazing today" 3. Don't make assumptions: Communicate clearly and ask for clarification when needed, rather than assuming and creating unnecessary misunderstandings. whatever you